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Recommendations to Females- by Stefan 10/27/99
In my opinion, there are a few things that females should take into consideration in their relationships with males. Most of these ideas, I think, will help us to get a long much, much better. The first thing is that you must always keep your eyes open. Pay attention to how he treats the other people, not just other females. Nine times out of ten, you will be treated in a similar fashion. For example, if he cheats on his girlfriend to try to talk to you. I do not care what he tells you, he’s the "playa type." If you get involved with him, he’ll probably do the same thing to you eventually. Secondly, listen to him. I’m not saying that you have to follow all his instructions, I’m just suggesting you pay attention to what he tells you. If you do this, the chances of you getting confused, and messages being misinterpreted are reduced. On this note, if he tells you about something that he doesn’t like, don’t do it just to see if you can get away with it. That will only lead to problems because he knows, that you know what you did (are doing), upsets him. Also, don’t play games. All the old roles, the "Coy Girl", the "Hard-to-get- Girl," the "Tough Girl," etc. shit does not fly. More often then not, all that will do is turn a guy off. Even though there are some masochistic guys out there who might like that. Just be yourself that is the best game anyone can spit. This one is for both sexes. If someone asks you a specific question out of the blue, just answer it. It’s just like it was back in the days with your parents. The question itself should tell you that the person already knows something. If you used to go a lot of places with your man and his peoples, now all of a sudden you’re not invited, you need to check that. Something might be up. I’m not saying that means he’s cheating, it could just mean that his boys might not like you. Check anyway. Now this is something that I feel strongly about, personally. Fellatio (sucking dick) is NOT nasty. Especially if you want someone to eat you out. Even if you don’t do it, just say you don’t do that. To this day I can’t understand why people still think it’s nasty. I’ve heard it all. We piss out of there (so do you). Swallowing sperm is nasty (don’t let him nut in your mouth). Etc…etc…etc. If anything, cunnilingus (eating out) is nastier. Ladies have a lot more going on down there than we do. As a matter of fact, go ahead and tell him it’s nasty. Just don’t get mad when his head stays above your waist. And lastly, one of the situations I’ve seen more than one good woman get caught up in. Having sex with a man, in hopes of developing a relationship, only makes matters worse. It doesn’t work, trust me. Because the main thing going through his head is "what’s the point of being tied down when I can get what I want without it." If you don’t listen to anything else I have to say, even if you think I’m crazy, please listen to that one, it’s so true it’s ridiculous. |
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